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Henry Gewanter's avatar

Thank you, George: with all the sanctimonious nonsense being spouted by politicians and the media about what is, I believe, a private matter which never was anyone else's business, you have lifted the dialogue to focus on something which is both meaningful and important to all of us.

Kind regards,

Henry Gewanter

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George Pitcher's avatar

Thankyou for taking the trouble Henry and glad it hit the mark for you. Trust you thrive. Ever, G

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Henry Gewanter's avatar

The two 'fundamental inner truths' you mentioned (wanting to see repentance before we forgive; and needing to forgive before we say so) are ones I shall try to take to heart and put into practice.

Although I haven't seen you in years, I'm prouder than ever to be able to call you my friend.

Fond regards,

Henry

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George Pitcher's avatar

That's a very kind thing to say! Thankyou. We need more of that on the internet (maybe a column on it!).

Though I'm not sure your takeaway is quite right - I'm arguing that we don't need to feel contrition before we're forgiven (or to see it before we forgive). Sorry I wasn't clear (forgive me!)

Trust you're thriving and in good shape. Blessings ever, G

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Henry Gewanter's avatar

Yes, you're right, the internet needs a lot more of that - as do we all in the real world. (Which is why I try to say these things when the opportunity arises.)

Thanks for the clarification, but I'm guessing you're thinking of it in terms of 'man and god' while (being an atheist) I'm thinking of it between 'man and man'.

Over the last couple of years I've been confronted by a great deal of anger and confrontation, so I've been thinking about putting what you said into practice against those who've 'transgressed' against me.

In any case, I'm grateful for your stimulating me to such thoughts - and hope they work!

Your pal,

Henry

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George Pitcher's avatar

Hang in there Henry. Blessings G

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Henry Gewanter's avatar

Thanks, pal, you too!

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